A sexual problem is anything that keeps sex from being satisfying. Most women have symptoms of a sexual problem at one time of their life which may negatively impact their relationship.
Sexual response is different for every women. You may also find that what is normal at one stage of your life changes at another stage. It’s common for both women and men to have lower sex drives as their age decline. Also, it’s common for an exhausted mother of a baby to have little interest in sex.
What are some causes of sexual problems in women?
Sexual problems can equally be caused by emotional or physical issues in your life. Some common causes include:
- Emotional causes, such as stress, relationship problems, depression or anxiety, a memory of sexual abuse or rape, and unhappiness with your body
- Physical causes, such as hormone problems, pain from an injury or other problem, and certain conditions such as diabetes or arthritis
- Aging, which can cause dryness and hormonal changes in the vagina
- Taking certain medications such as medicines for diabetes, blood pressure and depression What are the symptoms?
Symptoms of sexual problems can include:
- Trouble feeling aroused
- Less desire for sex
- Pain during sex
- Not being able to have an orgasm
How are sexual problems in women diagnosed?
You may notice a change in desire or sexual satisfaction. When this happens, it helps to look at what is and isn’t working in your body and in your life. For example:
- Are you ill, or do you take a medicine that can lower your sexual desire or response?
- Are you stressed or often very tired?
- Do you have a caring, respectful connection with a partner?
- Do you and your partner have the time and privacy to relax together?
- Do you have painful memories about sex or intimacy?
Your doctor can help you decide what to do. He or she will ask questions, examine you and talk to you about possible causes.
How are they treated?
It is vital to open up to your doctor so they can be able to help you. Treatment for a sexual problem depends on the cause. It may include treating a health problem, learning how to talk openly with your partner, and learning about things you can do at home. For example, you might take a warm bath to relax, have plenty of foreplay before sex, or try different positions during sex.