The attention period of men wander from time to time, making them to get bored easily and uninterested in what you have to say. Men seem to think women want to talk about shopping and nothing else, and fail to understand that we want to keep them engrossed.
The biggest fear many people face when in a relationship is losing the interest of their partner. While they probably will remain fascinated, purely because they like who you are as a person, it can feel like they grow distant especially when it comes to communication in a relationship.
How to keep a guy interested
Think about what he might like to talk about in order to keep him interested. Here are 13 things to talk about with him. These are some definite ways to attract his interest and keep his eyes on you.
- Talk about his interests
Most things that might interest a woman may not interest a man. However, talking about issues that borders on his interest may catch his attention. Let him know that you find his life interesting. Men don’t actually have a lot of time to sit and discuss their interests, unless it’s a shared interest. So, you keep him absorbed when you bring the topic up.
This is definitely one topic that can make a man pay extra close attention. Now, this can be a sensitive subject for men. Talk over things you’d like to try, and even ask him if there’s anything he would be interested in doing. This is a great way to keep him engrossed, because it opens an avenue that can sometimes drain a relationship. This would make him know that you’re open to conversing these topics with him.
- His work
Most people spend a whole lot of their day at work. Men are very proud of their work, so ask him how his job is going. Ask him about his new goals at work or any projects he’s got going on that he really likes, and other work-related topics. You’ll keep him interested when he knows you care about his work.
- Anything that he’ll consider a bombshell
You can keep his attention glued to you by bringing up a topic he knows a lot about and ask him to explain it to you. Talk about his favorite sports team and how they’re doing, or just find anything that will make him look at you in surprise.
When you drop a bombshell once in a while when he least expect, you’ll just keep him sitting around, waiting to see what you’ll talk about next. Remember to always have a surprise tucked away, ready to drop at the perfect moment.
Generally, food is a thing most men love. Keep his interest focused on you by talking about varieties of food you will like to prepare for him.
- Any of his new hobbies
You might recoil at the very thought of spending time talking about his latest golf outing with his colleagues, but discuss it, if it’s something that he finds important. Ask how it went, what new thing he learned, and others. You could ask him if you could join him in his new hobby. He’ll be both astounded and fascinated that you not only brought it up, but you want to join.
- Anything that has to do with him
Men love to talk about themselves. If you’ve noticed he’s spending more time in the gym or trying with his new haircut, you can talk about it. They may just itching for you to ask about their new exercises routine because their body is looking great. Ask him what new workouts he’s been doing, or what motivated his sudden transformation.
- Talk about humorous things
Don’t talk about serious dialogues – unless they are important. Stick with light-hearted hilarity. If you know he finds certain things funny, talk about them. It might strike up a fun conversation that’ll make him yearn for more time with you.
- Talk about his passions
Ask him about what he’s passionate about, he’ll just keep talking on and on. Men really don’t talk about these things with their friends all that often. he’ll crave for your company if you’re someone he knows he can reveal these things to.
- Play 20 questions—he goes first
There are probably hundreds of questions he wants to ask you, but has never had the chance. Well, now you can give it to him that opportunity. If you’re looking for a conversation starter, tell him you want to play 20 questions with anything as fair game. You’ll not only keep him attentive, but the two of you will get to know each other better and better, and he’ll probably find things out about you he didn’t even know.