What Makes a Man Attractive?
A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that men who display positive qualities like helpfulness, politeness and kindness, were considered better-looking by women. Also, a 2004 study in Evolution and Human Behavior discovered that students rated each other as more attractive at the end of a semester, after they’d gotten to know each other, than they did on the first day of class.
Be her bad boy
Most women are turned on by wild Imagination, unpredictability, and fun. Researchers at New Mexico State University in Las Cruces and Bradley University in Peoria, Illinois found that men who are exploitative, callous, deceitful, self-obsessed, and thrill-seeking regularly report having more partners than the nice, modest guys.
Some women like men who are mischief-makers, but that doesn’t mean you should brag about your abs, refuse to wear a condom, or lie about your salary in the hopes of getting lucky.
The reason so many women run off with the bad boy types on hot Saturday nights is that they’re craving raw excitement. And you don’t have to be a creep to provide that. Just make a suggestion she’s never heard before, like taking her to an underground club or heading up to the roof of your skyscraper office building.
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Stop being the “safe” guy
Girls aren’t really turned on by guys who are always playing safe. Most single women aren’t waiting for a nice guy, (though they feel they are), but they’re waiting for sparks to fly. Next time, give in to an urge to do something unexpected, and when you kiss, do it like you don’t give a damn whether she thinks you’re nice. After all, on the first date a nice guy won’t tell a woman she looks incredibly sexy even if he’s thinking it. He won’t make fun of the froufrou way she holds her cocktail glass and he definitely won’t put his hands on that sweet spot just above her waist when he kisses her goodnight.
Wear an irresistible fragrance
Women adore sweet smell, they still bask in your fragrance long after you’ve gone. One study by the Olfactory Research Fund indicated that women who smelled male cologne while daydreaming about sex felt more aroused than those who sniffed a neutral scent.
Even plain old Ivory soap is more of a turn-on that nothing at all. Researchers at the University of Bern in Switzerland discovered that a little eau de male underarm can actually arouse women. But without a smell, a man is practically invisible to the opposite sex.
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Take a look in your shower, medicine cabinet, and laundry room: if you’re using mostly unscented deodorant, soap, and detergent, and you avoid cologne, you too may be an invisible man. Once you start using scented products that stimulates the olfactory receptor and boost arousal like lavender, jasmine, myrrh, sandalwood, and ylang ylang, you become very visible.
What to Wear?
Any guy who’s confident and cool will look good no matter what he has on. But it is better if you wear something classic. A black, long-sleeve, button-down shirt with sleeves rolled up, tucked into fitted, faded Levi’s might just be the sexiest look of all time.
Say the Words She Wants to Hear
Call your spouse something like “bunny, baby, dolly, princess, cupcake, hotsy or bunnsy” and she’ll feel her insides go all warm with these lovely pet names. This is because such sweet nothing create intimacy between couples. Studies show that couples who have silly names for each other and share a secret language have richer, more loving relationships.
When a woman opens her eyes and sees a man’s ripped abs in action, it’s definitely hot. Seeing a large, doughy mass jiggling in all directions is definitely not attractive. Excess flab will definitely detract from a woman’s eagerness to rip off a man’s clothes, whether she’s a stranger in a bar or his wife of 10 years.
Other qualities women find attractive in men are:
- Women love men with good sense of humour
- When you smile and hold eye contact with a woman, it turns her on
- Women consider men who keep your voice low and speak slowly, attractive
- Ladies love men who have Confidence
- A man of status
- The ladies are always around playful and exciting men